1. Listen without interrupting.
A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion.
2. Speak without accusing.
Know this , my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger...
3. Give without sparing.
All day long he craves and craves, but the righteous gives and does not hold back.
4. Pray without ceasing.
And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding...
5. Answer without arguing.
Better s a dry morsel with quiet than a house full of feasting with strife.
6. Share without pretending.
Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the heard, into Christ...
7. Enjoy without complaint.
Do all things without grumpling or questioning
8. Trust without wavering.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
9. Forgive without punishing.
...bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.
10. Promise without forgetting.
Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.